Published inHadrian’s Hall·Jul 13Member-onlyDo It for Them, Doom Them: Break Your HelicopterYour kid has low self-confidence. Or your child suffers from anxiety and depression. And you know, somehow, that it’s your fault. You’re a crappy parent. So, you try harder. You choose your child’s activities and friends. You solve your child’s problems and make your child’s decisions. Perhaps you’ve witnessed that…Parenting Advice8 min readParenting Advice8 min read
Published inHadrian’s Hall·Jul 3Member-onlyI Challenge You to Overcome 3 Risks and Share Your StoryGather ‘round the fire and stand to share your truth On Friday, April 21, my husband and I, and another 150 people, attended the Mount Kearsarge Indian Museum Native American Stories of the Night Sky. While sipping hot cocoa and hot cider, and enjoying s’mores, attendees gathered around the campfire…Oral Tradition7 min readOral Tradition7 min read
Published inHadrian’s Hall·Jun 20Member-onlyHigh Tech Manners: Communication Etiquette Makes You the Bell of the BallWhy didn’t your friend answer your text? Why did your target customer not answer your email? Why did your coworker reply to your text in a snippy tone? Did your friend mean something by her ALL CAPS email? These tech communication quandaries result from tech disconnect. What is tech disconnect? …Etiquette10 min readEtiquette10 min read
Published inWarts & All·Jun 17Member-onlyTongue-Tied, Term-Tripping, And Terrified? We Should Blame The French.Mispronunciation is not your fault Tongue in a knot? In daily speech, you may not be aware of words you mispronounce. And you may not recognize the culpability of the French. But I digress. Mispronouncing a word can blow a date or an interview — and it certainly won’t impress…Mispronunciation8 min readMispronunciation8 min read
Published inWarts & All·Jun 13Member-onlyPeculiar Puppy Parents and Patty“I never had trouble with names. You spend some time with them until you get to know them. Get to know what she’s like. Princess here? She was just so expectant to be waited upon.” Belinda cuddled her teacup poodle against her neck. “I had to name you Princess, didn’t…Social Commentary10 min readSocial Commentary10 min read
Published inManual Focus·Updated Jun 18Member-onlyEncouraging Court Decision Sends Copycats to the DoghouseLet’s call it The Prince Rule Resampling music. Painting over a photograph. Fan fiction. I may be in the minority who finds these pseudo-creative practices bereft of talent and blatant acts of copyright infringement. But I stand my ground. Consider the recent (ever-ongoing) Richard Prince lawsuits. In 2014, when Prince…Prince10 min readPrince10 min read
Published inHadrian’s Hall·Jun 7Member-onlyBrand Personality: How to Happily Be Your Customer’s BestieI’m back to help budding entrepreneurs with some pointers on how to build your company and solidify your market share. Today, I’ll help you make friends. And money. When industry experts throw around the term “brand personality,” they mean the human characteristics attributed to a brand. Consider if your brand…Branding Strategy8 min readBranding Strategy8 min read
Published inWarts & All·Jun 1Member-onlyLefties Unite!Viva sinistra! Welcome, Fabulous Left-Handed Reader to the super-secret revolution planning meeting! Oh, the challenges we face as left-handed persons. It’s quite stunning how we are not a defined, favored population. Consider our day-to-day frustration with door handles, spiral notebooks, and gear shifts! Perhaps life as a left-hander is not…Left Hand6 min readLeft Hand6 min read
Published inManual Focus·May 28Member-onlyPortraits Of Gen X Xenophobes: An Interview With Artist Gene StoutArtist, Gene Stout, is completing his NFT and oil painting series entitled A Portrait of Gen X Xenophobes, and we’re asking him to tell us a bit about his inspiration. We think some background will help you appreciate his interview. What are Xenophobes? Xenophobia means fear and hatred of strangers…Artist Interview8 min readArtist Interview8 min read
Published inHadrian’s Hall·May 20Member-onlySell to a Gen X? Be Straightforward and Show Some LoveYou want Gen X customers or clients? Take the time to understand them. To reach them, adopt two strategies: authenticity and acknowledgment. If you betray a Gen X — or fail to value Gen X patronage — a Gen Xer will turn his or her back on you, badmouth you…Gen X10 min readGen X10 min read